Couples Retreat for Soul Therapy: Take Your Relationship to Paradise

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Wellness is more than what we eat and how often we move our bodies; strong relationships are a key component for overall wellbeing and happiness.

Research shows that strong, positive relationships affect our mental and physical health and even our healing rate and mortality risk.

But relationships take energy, and like fitness, you have to put in the work to keep them strong.

While the idea of a romantic couples retreat might conjure up images of an over-sexed yoga instructor and unorthodox therapy from the 2009 film of the same name, they are a wonderful way to take advantage of vacation time to renew a relationship.

Whether you are experiencing issues and want to find solutions, or are simply yearning for more intimacy and wish to take your relationship to a deeper level, a couples retreat (like a yoga retreat) allows the time and space to truly connect, away from busy lives, work, and children in a beautiful, often exotic, setting.

Sandra Reich, M.Ed., is the Clinical Director of The Montreal Center for Anxiety & Depression, Co-Director of Empowered Women Workshops, bestselling author of a #1 book on relationships as well as the host of Straight Talk with Sandra Reich, a top weekly radio show on Internet’s Voice America.

She runs couples retreats each year to sunny locations such as Mexico and the beautiful Mont Tremblant, Quebec, covering techniques and strategies to help relationships thrive, such as respectful boundaries, communication, and building trust.

She notes, “We don’t get a manual on how to have a healthy relationship. All too often, couples either wait until their relationship is in rough waters to seek help, or they don’t get any at all and throw in the towel. You need to learn the tips and strategies it takes to keep your relationship flourishing…and that’s hard to do when you’re busy with life.”

Unlike the film, a couples retreat does not typically require anyone to share anything in a large group setting, as the “work” is done by each couple with privacy. Participants are welcome to share insights in the larger group during presentations and talks, but it’s not usually required—a relief for many.

When you are not in the space of learning from the facilitators, you have time to relax, get pampered, enjoy romantic meals or get active together, everything a ‘regular’ holiday would afford for body and soul. This time is about rejuvenation and learning to focus on each other, without distraction, technology, dinners to make, or kids to put to bed.

Sandra finds that couples return from these experiences having learned much about their partners and ready to begin a new stage of their relationship.

The emotional housecleaning can be hard work but goes deep on purpose; to get at the things that keep coming up to clear them once and for all.

Where to Go

For couples in search of a getaway combined with relationship coaching, there are weekend and longer retreats offered at resorts, spas, and health and wellness institutes worldwide.

They run the gamut in price, level of luxury, and focus, from improving intimacy to embracing healthy living and spirituality together. Here are some we recommend exploring.

Getting the Love You Want at El Mangroove, Costa Rica

Throughout 2022 these successful retreats from The Marriage Restoration Project will be held at the Autograph Collection’s El Mangroove beach resort in Guanacaste, Costa Rica. 

Based on Imago Therapy, which focuses on transforming conflict into healing and growth by examining the early childhood experiences of each person, during the five-day retreat, couples will be deeply heard by their spouse through a process that feels truly safe.

This will support them in discovering and shedding personal triggers that undermine connection so they can satisfy needs for physical and emotional connection and learn how to ask for what they truly want. 

Each day couples will work on their relationship, establishing new rituals for re-romanticizing, while having downtime to reconnect over beach walks, spa services and local excursions. 

Connecting: Relationships that Work at Canyon Ranch, Arizona

Canyon Ranch and the Life Enhancement Center® team welcome bestselling author and relationship expert Rachel Greenwald to contribute her wisdom and distinctive point of view. Rachel is a master at helping people create more satisfying relationships and will lead thought-provoking sessions filled with practical advice and inspiration.

In this dynamic group setting, learn how to enhance your relationships in 12 essential areas: relationship to self, current or future romantic partners, sex, aging, food, work, energy, family, grief, joy, and even connecting through a Zoom window. This is a chance to rethink your connections and view possibilities through a new lens.

Take home strategies based on the latest research that will help you improve connections among the people you value while fostering the wellness basics you need to thrive, including exercise, nutrition, wellness, and life balance. Set your intention for a healthier, happier future.

The Gottman Institute Private Couples Retreats, Orcas Island, Washington

Learn research-based tools for building and maintaining intimacy from the comfort of Drs. Julie and John Gottman’s home on Orcas Island in the San Juans.

Restore and enhance your relationship while on holiday in an exclusive, small-group two-day couples retreat, where you’ll learn new skills for deepening intimacy, managing conflicts, and enhancing your sense of shared meaning in a private, comfortable setting.

These retreats presented by the Gottmans in their seaside home include lectures, role-plays, discussions, and exercises completed just with one’s partner.

Couples Enrichment Retreats at Jaguarundi Shores, Belize

Enjoy a growth-focused couple’s enrichment experience, free from the many stressors that undermine relationships in our everyday lives.

This is an opportunity to experience holistic, relational growth where each couple will discover what they have somehow lost along the way, as well as wonderful aspects of each other they have yet to uncover.

Jaguarundi Shores offers a destination where you can immerse yourself in transformational change and psychological growth. Pursue personal transitions in a soulful, natural setting in partnership with expert therapists.

Whether your goal is to grow your relationship, detox from stress, overcome addiction or become more mindful, they feel all individuals need to completely reboot.

Couples Retreat at Shou Sugi Ban House, New York

Create an inspired and memorable escape for you and your partner. Retreat offering includes daily breakfast and a morning movement class, as well as their signature Romance Package, which consists of rose quartz, a signature flower arrangement, organic chocolate and a bottle of champagne.

A one-on-one pre-arrival consultation with their Guest Services team may offer you additional suggestions that cater to your specific needs and relationship goals. They recommend booking all additional services before your arrival for ease and availability.

Tips on Choosing a Couples Retreat

Choosing a couples retreat can be an exciting and rewarding experience, but with so many options available, it can also be overwhelming. Here are ten tips to help you choose the right couples retreat for you and your partner:

  1. Decide on your budget: Couples retreats can vary widely in cost, so it’s important to have a budget in mind before you start your search. This will help you to narrow down your options and avoid overspending.
  2. Consider the location: Think about where you and your partner would like to go for your couples retreat. Do you prefer a quiet, secluded location or a lively city atmosphere? Would you like to be near the beach or in the mountains?
  3. Look for a retreat that fits your interests: Think about what activities you and your partner enjoy and look for a retreat that offers those activities. For example, if you enjoy hiking, look for a retreat that is located in a scenic area with plenty of trails to explore.
  4. Check the schedule: Make sure the retreat’s schedule fits your availability and allows you to participate in the activities you’re interested in.
  5. Consider the accommodations: Look for a retreat that offers comfortable and relaxing accommodations that fit your needs and preferences.
  6. Read reviews: Check online reviews to see what other couples have said about their experience at the retreat. This can give you a good sense of what to expect and help you to make an informed decision.
  7. Look for a reputable company: Choose a retreat that is run by a reputable company with a good track record of providing quality retreat experiences.
  8. Check the instructor’s credentials: Make sure the instructors leading the retreat are experienced and qualified to teach the activities you’re interested in.
  9. Look for a retreat that offers a good balance of activities: A good couples retreat should offer a variety of activities to choose from, including both physical and mental exercises, to help you and your partner relax and connect.
  10. Ask for recommendations: Ask friends or family members if they have attended a couples retreat and if they would recommend it. This can be a great way to get personal recommendations and insights.

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